I don’t do resolutions, mainly because I find them promoted in the media as restrictions, or changes to our body, who we are, and don’t address long-term plans. Mainly I do not find the idea of making unrealistic expectations on ourselves as positive. I like to find the positives in what I do, and like to make goals and plans. I love mini goals, intentions, and planning. I am a big picture type of gal who loves to see where I have come from, live in the moment, plan BIG and work hard towards goals. So this is a list, both filled with huge goals, and mini daily intentions. Because I need both to keep inspired, motivated, and hopeful.
Personal:
- Quiet the Should Monster
- Blog more regularly
- Accept myself and my needs
- Forgive myself for mistakes made
- Practice kindness towards those I love
- Work on emotional regulation
- Make nutrition, exercise, and health a focus in daily life
- Reach out to those who support me when I need help or guidance
- Stop putting so much pressure on myself to do everything
- Get new tattoos (yes more than 1!)
- Be nice to me, my body, my spirit
- Take more photography classes
- Make jewelry
- Find a pilates studio
Personal Empowerment, Motivation, Inspiration & Hope:
- Provide inspiration, hope, and support to #RecoveryWarriors
- Continue to grow as a mentor
- Seek personal empowerment
- Find motivation in all I do
- Flexibility in ALL areas of life
- Create vision boards when I need inspiration or guidance
- Focus on chakra balances
- Take classes of interest, on ANY topic because learning is a priority in my life
- Read more books
- Get more sleep
- Take more breaks from social media
Professional:
- Set up ViR as a business
- Set up ViR website
- Create logo for ViR
- Begin to create products for ViR
- Enroll in Life Coaching classes
- Start speaking engagements for ViR
- Start a book
- Create ViR support groups, whether in chat, on twitter, or in person
- Entrepreneurship – lots of thoughts on this. More to come…
Ten 2011 ViR Hopes for the New Year for ViR #RecoveryWarriors, Carers, and Supporters:
- LOVE & ACCEPT who you are; Be true to YOU; Embrace your individual BEAUTY
- Honor your body, mind in spirit – eat well, exercise, read more, sleep more, and breathe through it all!
- Find motivation, inspiration, and hope in all you do
- Write down and express your gratitudes
- Set daily intentions
- Never give up on your dreams! No goal/dream/passion is too big to ask the Universe for guidance!
- Be patient with progress! All progress, not matter how small matters! No slip will erase the progress you have made, get back up and start walking
- Seek balance and moderation – life is about balance & living, not restriction
- Quiet your inner Should Monster, inner tyrant, ED voice who says you aren’t enough, don’t deserve a full life, and empower your inner ROCKSTAR!!
- Set Time for FUN!


















You inspire ‘me
By: Jenn on January 1, 2011
at 8:14 AM
Thank you hun!!!
By: VoiceinRecovery on January 1, 2011
at 9:43 AM
Your goals for the year are beautiful reminders that living a healed life starts with compassion for ourselves.
By: Michele @ Healthy Cultivations on January 1, 2011
at 8:28 AM
Absolutely!!!! Priority is self love, forgiveness and healing
By: VoiceinRecovery on January 1, 2011
at 9:43 AM
I agree with Michele A healed life starts with compassion and each step each movement reinforces that first step of being worth it~
By: Jules - Big Girl Bombshell on January 1, 2011
at 8:36 AM
Great post, Kendra. I think you’re an inspiration to so many. Happy new year!
By: Katie Goode on January 1, 2011
at 9:17 AM
Thank you Katie!
By: VoiceinRecovery on January 1, 2011
at 9:43 AM
Wow that is an impressive list of things you want to achieve. I am like you in that I don’t do New Year’s resolution. My old one was always to lose weight and reach my target. Today I write down one thing I would like to change in each area of my life. I put it away and look at it a year later. The amazing thing is that I tend to have achieved them all by the next year.
My recovery is about making one change at a time. Once that change has been made then I make the next and so on.
Alison
By: Alison Jenkins on January 2, 2011
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